How I got fired from work

Elochai · 2014-06-28 16:47:23

So..

There was this 'person' in this mental 'child' hospitals garden. This 'person' was stupidly attractive, just had an amazing figure and face. So I asked them for a little cuddle. They said sure, so I did so. Although, while resting my head along side his, I may have kind of pressed my lips against his neck and hugged him tighter. I was unaware of the carer behind me, sadly.

This is "unacceptable behaviour" and "seriously taking advantage of disadvantaged children"..

So now I'm in so serious trouble (again).. and lost my job.

HERE WE GO AGAIN!

I think this counts as a fail.

Different55 · 2014-06-28 16:57:04

That is kinda messed up tho.

What you did, not what they did. They hit the nail on the head with this line:

seriously taking advantage of disadvantaged children

Elochai · 2014-06-28 17:04:03

Yeah well. Do you know how many times my stupidly expensive lawyer has got my out of these law cases? 3 times. And he was able to make me keep my son. Now, my workplace have gone an reported me. I doubt the court will think I'm a decent father after 4 times in a year..

How is kissing someones neck taking advantage though? But of course the court to talk about it as if it was murder rape. They get so absorbed in something that isn't even something. It's only the staff which make the boy worse. "Oh are you okay, what he did was SICK"..

I'm so mad.. Mainly at my self. but still half mad at everyone else.

Different55 · 2014-06-28 17:08:39

It's a bad idea to keep slamming your head up against a wall just because it didn't hurt the first 3 times.

Elochai · 2014-06-28 17:48:49

It's not that. Just none of the boys have ever been hurt. That's not my goal.

Different55 · 2014-06-28 17:54:56

It's not a good idea to keep slamming your head against a wall just because the wall wasn't hurt the first 3 times.

While we're on the subject, what IS your goal?

EDIT: Ninja'd by N1KF

EDIT: Or maybe not? I'm confused.

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N1KF · 2014-06-28 17:54:57

Different55 wrote:

It's a bad idea to keep slamming your head up against a wall just because it didn't hurt the first 3 times.

I agree. You wall might crack or have other damages, so it's best to keep your wall safe.

Elochai · 2014-06-28 17:59:46

I don't really have a goal, just love life, be with boys, and keep my walls happy and give them plenty of TLC.

Different55 · 2014-06-28 18:02:28

Giving walls TLC is illegal and will inevitably end you up in big trouble, no matter how good your lawyer is.

Elochai · 2014-06-28 18:05:19

But they need it, and they need a good role model.. AND THEY ALL FREAKING LOVE ME NOT TO MENTION... all the walls defend me in court. which is funny, isn't it?

What are they fighting for. The law is to protect people. Not punish people for doing that.

Different55 · 2014-06-28 18:45:33

They don't need it. We've been over this: Sexual activity harms children physically and mentally. Don't bring up your "they'd be
fine if they grew up outside of society" argument. It's completely invalid. All of those children will grow up in society. They'll
be harmed. They don't need that kind of trauma haunting them for the rest of their lives.

They need a good role model.
Role models don't knowingly hurt people.

Of course they love you. If you give a dog a bone every day he'll love you for the rest of his life.

No, it's not funny. It's inevitable. It's the only possible outcome. They won't bite the hand that feeds them.

Who are "they"? Are they the court? They're fighting to protect people. They're trying hard, but you keep slipping away, somehow. Why can't you just settle down and quit causing problems? You wouldn't have to worry about losing Ash, you wouldn't have to worry about losing everything you own, there's a million less things to worry about if you just accept what is obvious to everyone else. CSA harms children.

Ratburntro44 · 2014-06-28 18:48:55

I'll second everything D55 has said here.

Elochai · 2014-06-28 18:58:50

The problem is. My argument about them not growing up in society has been proven to be true... Sit back a second. Is it really what I'm doing which will hurt them, or again, is it everyone else? Well, it's been proven it's mainly everyone else that traumatizes them. so argue with the studies and not me.

Oh god. I'm not worried about anything. For all I care they can take my son and lock me up for 20 years, I didn't even ask for him in the first place... You know I'm fed up with peoples ignorance and blindness.

We moan on a daily basis about people like me, yet we do nothing in the first place. I mean, people don't want to invest in research for it. Tut, I guess that's my fault to..

Everyone knows sexual attraction is a strong desire, epically when you're a teenager with ragging hormones.

Different55 · 2014-06-28 19:24:41

Elochai wrote:

The problem is. My argument about them not growing up in society has been proven to be true... Sit back a second. Is it really what I'm doing which will hurt them, or again, is it everyone else? Well, it's been proven it's mainly everyone else that traumatizes them. so argue with the studies and not me.

Doesn't matter. It can't have been proven true because so far each of them has grown up and will continue to grow up in society. The argument is unprovable unless you form a cult of sex crazed children out in the woods.

Oh god. I'm not worried about anything. For all I care they can take my son and lock me up for 20 years, I didn't even ask for him in the first place... You know I'm fed up with peoples ignorance and blindness.

Mixed signals here. At one point, you explicitly said that he was the only reason you didn't just off yourself, and that if they took him away you would lose your reason to live. Now you're complaining about my ignorance and blindness? Well pardon me for believing you. >_>

We moan on a daily basis about people like me, yet we do nothing in the first place. I mean, people don't want to invest in research for it. Tut, I guess that's my fault to..

That would be unethical. What if it does harm children both inside and out of society? If you carry out the experiment, it'd take over a decade to raise each to adulthood, and after that you're stuck with hundreds of traumatized people. It's not okay to intentional traumatize people. It's not worth the off chance that only the half of the children in the experiment that were raised outside of society are traumatized.

Everyone knows sexual attraction is a strong desire, epically when you're a teenager with ragging hormones.

Yet most other people on the planet manage to stay quiet about it somehow.

Elochai · 2014-06-29 03:19:26

Different55 wrote:

Yet most other people on the planet manage to stay quiet about it somehow.

Why the hell should we? We are we forced to be quiet, and why are we hated from the beginning. Why do you think this is a normal way to live?

Different55 · 2014-06-29 08:39:13

Elochai wrote:

Different55 wrote:
Yet most other people on the planet manage to stay quiet about it somehow.
Why the hell should we? We are we forced to be quiet, and why are we hated from the beginning. Why do you think this is a normal way to live?

I meant every teenager. Most teens on the planet manage to stay quiet about their orientation and not shove it in everyone's face all the time.

As for why, the answer is simple. It's polite.

Starvr344 · 2014-07-18 19:44:08

This should be moved to Srs Bsns. There's some srs bsns going on here.

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